People feel the most socially at ease with people who look good, carry themselves with social grace, poise, and confidence. Additionally we all feel the most comfortable with other people who look like they will accept us and not reject our social approaches. Whether you are looking to approach people for initiating a business relation, a social friendship, or a romantic relationship, learning how to master your personal approachability puts you in the drivers seat. The more you can be approachable with others, the more you increase your personal master and your interpersonal skill level of putting others at ease. When you master your people skills, everyone wants to know you, be your friend, and do business with you.
Increasing your approachability starts with your personal grooming care level.
Do Groom with Excellent Self Care
The first step towards becoming more approachable with other people is to practice excellent personal grooming and self-care. People who care about themselves groom well, reflecting their personal confidence. Increasing the level of your personal grooming means you want to pay attention not only to all of the basics which include the obvious items of you bathing and using deodorant each day. Excellent self care grooming entails that you give extra attention to the small details. Giving your extra attention to the little details translates to your possibly showering more than once a day. The small details can be that you carry a toothbrush and dental floss with you at the office so your mouth is always its freshest best throughout the day and before the important business meeting after lunch.
Dress with polish and flare
Whether you are dressing casually to run your errands on the weekend or you are putting on your office business executive power suit, dress with polish and flare.
After sun can be a blue collar man wearing a trade business uniform and still your uniform is washed, ironed, and your collar is crisply starched. Whatever your profession, you need not dress in a way which is slovenly. Do so always puts others off from wanting to approach and talk with you.
It can mean that you always have a clean business shirt stored away at your office so that if you accidentally spill coffee on your shirt in the morning that you can change dress shirts and look your personal best before you have the face to face in person business meeting with an executive or a date later today.
Smile warmly and chat easily with others
People want to be with people of high status because by association it reflects well on them and their status. In addition, we all feel more comfortable with other people who put us at socially at ease. Whether it is in a business setting or personal social setting, we all feel more comfortable approaching people who both look good and who look like they are open to our approach to them.
How can you help others to feel that level of personal and professional comfort with you? Your open body language and your warm smile encourages them that you are a warm and accepting person.
Bareminerals smoothing face brush puts them at ease that you will behave like that with them, too.
Lastly, display your warm, poised, and approachable social skills with others by chatting easily with other people. When others see you warm, graciously, and comfortably chatting with other people, our brains immediately picture that you will extend that accepting gracious behavior to us as well and not reject us.
By practicing your excellent personal grooming, personal polish, and social conversational poise, you establish the best circumstance to put others at ease and to make yourself more approachable to them.